Divorce mediation: Get ready with these 3 tips

Divorce mediation: Get ready with these 3 tips

by Jane Stack and Nancy D. Kellman | May 28, 2020 | Divorce

Going through a divorce isn’t always simple, but since you and your spouse are willing to work together, mediation is something you should try. Mediation gives you the opportunity to work through disputes or disagreements with a third party present. That third party can give you information about the law and help you decide on the right solution to any disagreement.

Mediation has a lot of benefits, but if you decide to use it, you’ll need to prepare. Here are three tips for getting ready for your first mediation appointment:

  1. Agree, and stick to that agreement: The first thing to do is to remember that if you agree to mediation, you need to give it a try. Commit yourself to working through the disagreements, keeping open lines of communication and being willing to listen.
  2. Get organized: Next, get organized. You should get all of your legal documents together and prepare for the session. Whether you want to show a budget to your spouse or are interested in providing evidence of the assets you own, make sure you have all the paperwork and files ready.
  3. Set goals for each session: Finally, set a personal goal for each session. It might be something as simple as starting a conversation about custody or avoiding a breakdown in communication. Your mediator will be there to help and move you toward your goals, so you can eventually resolve your divorce dispute.

Mediation has many benefits that you can use to your advance, but you need to commit, be organized and have goals. Once you do, you’ll be able to come to the sessions with a clear mind and be ready to work on solutions.